This is the fourth instalment of my weekly Lenten thoughts on the film and novel Chocolat. It is not connected to the makers of either.
There’s quite a lot of bossiness in this tale, screen and page.
In the book, Armande sweeps Guillaume off when his dog is dead in the manner that Vianne does to her. Vianne tells Josephine to stay with her when she leaves her abusive husband and not catch a bus to start a new life elsewhere; then she ends up employing her. When Armande has a health crisis, she tells Josephine she will (not asks ‘will you’?) look after her shop and child whilst Vianne calls a doctor, which she knows Armande will not want, and thus a posse turns up which adds to Armande’s predicament. I’m glad that Armande uses this as an opportunity to rout them all.
Vianne’s relationship to medicine is as mixed as her chocolate bowl: her cancerous mum refused hospital and carried on travelling to the end, but it’s implied that the alternative therapies failed and they ended up on black market morphine – hence she’s good at giving Armande shots for diabetes. Vianne and her mum thus ended with the mainstream method, but by illicit means.
Vianne feels Charly’s neck and decides that the lump is ‘hopeless’ – quite how she is able to make such an assertion, via any form of medicine, is not explained. I don’t really see Vianne as having healing gifts or intuition about health, other than crushing her magic beans. There’s a hint that Guillaume should have put Charly down sooner, rather than allow him to whine all night in pain – or shockingly, die naturally. Guillaume submits to the veterinarian euthanasia model. But there is a human in Chocolat who also chooses her end before it gets to that stage.
Armande’s stance is very relevant to our world at present. She’d have been isolated for the best part of a year as she lives alone, doesn’t get on with her family (and so wouldn’t be in their bubble), and the homes around her are mostly deserted. If Armande had kept to the rules, she’d have been alone with a potentially dangerous diagnosis. If she went into Le Mimosa nursing home, it would likely have fulfilled its Le Mortoire moniker, as so many can tragically attest. She would not have been permitted visits – or perhaps the support she needed would be denied her as the home would refuse new entries, and she’d be delayed getting hospital treatment. Long before last March, I know of people turned away from operating theatres on grounds of age; and if the likes of Armande had an attack, would a Do Not Resuscitate order have been placed on her? If Armande wanted to reach out to an alternative practitioner, she may have been forbidden from meeting with them for much of the last year. She ought not see Vianne either. Thus, with little to live for, Armande and her dodgy roof, failing eyesight, and advanced diabetes might well have left the world sooner, and not on her terms.
It’s possible to see Armande’s demise as literally death by chocolate, but it was a happy end, having lived more intensely during the 6 weeks of the story than for many decades. It was an end she was in control of; a Frida-like joyful firework of a finale. Armande had completed several strands of her life and been of service to others. In the book, she is friend to Guillaume, another older lone person who is grieving for his dog. She offers work, hospitality and friendship to the river folk, and they assist her. Her friendship with Vianne is a mutual benefit: via Vianne, she is reconciled with daughter and grandson, and Armande is a surrogate for the unhealed mother wounds. They also simply enjoy each other – it doesn’t need to be a transaction, like so much in this world.
Armande says, if you can’t do what you like at my age – which is 81 – then when can you? We can feel as if we’re waiting for the age when we’re given permission to truly be free and respected, to then feel it falling away again. Giving up her autonomy for nurses with clipboards to record bodily functions was not appealing to this clearly sharp, spirited lady. Why are some of us Carolines, happier at the thought of our elders ‘taken care of’ in that way – I’d suggest in both senses of that phrase. When do we start to infantilise those who were once our elders, our life givers and nurturers?
Armande stands by her right to be reckless. Does she harm anyone else? Does she actually cause any inconvenience? No. If she had, could it be argued that public resources were being wasted? It’s an opinion that has been mooted, on health and other matters. I would say that often the perceived inconvenience is systemic: that we expect an official, public body to handle anything we call a disaster, and that public body can be paternalistic towards us, whatever our age. Perhaps we need to give a little more leeway, and not to try and over-control.
Should we prolong life, at any age? Would ‘careful’ living, and entering that institution she so feared, have meant that Armande was living a better life? Life can seem over, or on hold, even when we are still breathing – rather like the senior priest that Reynaud of the novel consults. For all his power and status, this father can’t eat or talk or even register his consciousness. He is subject to nursy nuns, merely existing. Armande ensured she exited by another door.
Armande also defied the church. Her birthday party falls in Holy Week. In the book, it is on Good Friday, that most sacred, solemn day. Whilst the Lenten fast continues for at least another 24 hours, Armande and guests break all the rules, early. But Good Friday is not so meaningful for Armande or her party throwers. It didn’t clash with the worship of the day and nor is her party venue right near the church. Yes, it might have enticed others away from their commitments, but this was to be Armande’s last night – she couldn’t wait until the official restrictions end day of Sunday, just as many have left this world during the restrictions we’re all facing. We might also ask how a party could have done real harm, or was it truly that the joy-stealing controllers weren’t invited.
Reynaud is annoyed that Armande, that longlost soul, gives him and the medical world the slip. She has gone to Vianne’s Pagan side, rather than that of our Lord – although I believe Armande would have met him too. And not in the sense of judgement. Reynaud tries posthumous reclamation via the last rites that living Armande would not have wanted. But she’s grinning, and he knows that his words will do little now. She’s not lost to God – she’s lost to Reynaud’s power. Armande reclaimed her sovereignty and found joy and peace. It didn’t come from an ampoule, an enema, or a missal.
The line that Luc adopts from his Gran is the one I’ll leave you with, for it sums up much of her spirit: “Don’t worry so much about supposed to.”